Beyond his stage antics, Ralph has demonstrated his strong work ethic as a cellar hand, truck driver, barman and HiFi salesman but despite his busy lifestyle, Ralph found the love of his life in Annabel whom he married in 1985.
They still live in the house they bought in Rowland Flat.
“We were totally opposite types of people…. I was a bit of a rat bag I suppose and she was very quiet, studying to be a teacher. We were
poles apart,” he says.
The couple had three children, Jarrod, Nicola and Ben but they were to experience unimaginable heartbreak after losing their eldest son, Jarrod in a vehicle crash ten years ago.
Emotions are still raw as memories of that tragic day flood back.
“It tests you, losing a child… it’s horrendous. But each day, the sun comes up,” he says, tears welling as he describes a beloved son who seemed to shadow his every footstep.
“The silly thing is we had very similar personalities… I’ve ended up restoring his VC Valiant, the one he started,” he says.
“I was very angry… you question everything. You’ve done what you believe to be right and you try and treat people right and when that happened you think what did I do to deserve this?”
Despite the heartache, there is a lesson Ralph believes he has learned from his son’s death.
“All those things that are really insignificant, the things you sometimes spend too much focus on – all of a sudden there’s a light bulb moment and you think … it’s not important.”
Ralph admits to reaching breaking point but the love of family pulled him through.